Experiential Depth Psychotherapy

Amanda Morrison

Experiential Depth Psychotherapy

Amanda Morrison 

Many couples arrive in therapy because something has begun to feel unlivable. Conversations escalate or shut down. One partner may feel chronically responsible for holding things together, while the other feels blamed, pursued, or overwhelmed. Anger, withdrawal, or superficial interactions start to shape the relationship in ways that are hard to interrupt.

Often, both partners are trying to protect themselves or the relationship—but the strategies they rely on are creating more distance, resentment, or fear over time.
Couples therapy offers a place to slow these patterns down and look honestly at what is happening between you.

When something in the relationship no longer feels sustainable

Couples

In our work together, we focus on the moments where things go off track—cycles of pursuit and withdrawal, emotional shutdown, defensiveness, or conflict that never quite resolves. We take time to understand how these patterns formed and what they are protecting against, rather than treating them as failures or flaws. These dynamics are rarely about a lack of love. More often, they are organized around fear—fear of conflict, anger, blame, or losing connection. By slowing these moments down, we make space for deeper emotions to surface and for greater safety and connection to emerge.

Alongside this, we also pay close attention to what is working—moments of care, responsiveness, or ease—and explore how those experiences feel in the body and how to create more of them in everyday life.



How Couples Therapy Works

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What Therapy Can Be Like:

What Therapy Can Be Like:

How I Work with Couples

Working with Diverse Relationships

This work may be a good fit if you:

This work may be a good fit if you:

My work with couples is informed by training in relational, attachment-based, and somatic approaches to couples therapy, including PACT, Accelerated Experiential Dynamic Psychotherapy for Couples, and Hakomi-based methods. These trauma-informed approaches emphasize attachment needs, nervous system regulation, and the moment-to-moment emotional processes that shape intimacy and conflict, offering a path toward repairing relational ruptures.

Drawing from this foundation, I work directly and relationally with couples to make reactive patterns visible, support emotional regulation, and foster new experiences of accountability, repair, and connection—especially in moments that have previously felt overwhelming or unsafe. I help couples slow down and learn to listen to themselves and one another, so that each person can feel genuinely heard.

I work with couples across a wide range of identities and relational structures, including queer and LGBTQ2IA+ couples, non-monogamous and polyamorous relationships, and partnerships that fall outside of traditional norms.

Rather than assuming a single model of relationship health, I work with couples to clarify their values, agreements, and limits, and to understand how culture, identity, power, and social context shape relational dynamics.

My role is not to prescribe how a relationship should look, but to support honesty, consent, and self-respect within the relationship you are actually living.

  • Feel stuck in relationship patterns that haven’t shifted despite effort
  • Notice anger, withdrawal, or fear shaping how you relate
  • Want to address communication or intimacy issues before they become bigger problems
  • Experience imbalance, resentment, or chronic over-functioning
  • Want to learn how to regulate your nervous system better when things get hard
  • Are willing to look at how each partner participates in the system
  • Are seeking depth, accountability, and care rather than quick fixes

Over Time, This Work Can Support:

  • Greater emotional safety and trust within the relationship
  • Increased capacity to stay present during conflict rather than escalating or shutting down
  • Deeper understanding of how attachment styles/nervous system patterns shape your dynamic
  • More effective communication that goes beyond skills into felt understanding
  • Increased compassion for both yourself and your partner
  • More flexibility in how you relate during moments of stress, transition, or rupture
  • A renewed sense of intimacy, connection, and shared meaning
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I offer in-person therapy in the East Bay and virtual sessions throughout California

If you’re curious about working together, I invite you to reach out for a 20 min free consultation


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Amanda Morrison
Licensed Psychotherapist
LMFT #78449 
amandamorrisonmft@gmail.com
415-689-5792
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