Many couples arrive in therapy because something has begun to feel unlivable. Conversations escalate or shut down. One partner may feel chronically responsible for holding things together, while the other feels blamed, pursued, or overwhelmed. Anger, withdrawal, or superficial interactions start to shape the relationship in ways that are hard to interrupt.
Often, both partners are trying to protect themselves or the relationship—but the strategies they rely on are creating more distance, resentment, or fear over time.
Couples therapy offers a place to slow these patterns down and look honestly at what is happening between you.
My work with couples is informed by training in relational, attachment-based, and somatic approaches to couples therapy, including PACT, Accelerated Experiential Dynamic Psychotherapy for Couples, and Hakomi-based methods. These trauma-informed approaches emphasize attachment needs, nervous system regulation, and the moment-to-moment emotional processes that shape intimacy and conflict, offering a path toward repairing relational ruptures.
Drawing from this foundation, I work directly and relationally with couples to make reactive patterns visible, support emotional regulation, and foster new experiences of accountability, repair, and connection—especially in moments that have previously felt overwhelming or unsafe. I help couples slow down and learn to listen to themselves and one another, so that each person can feel genuinely heard.
I work with couples across a wide range of identities and relational structures, including queer and LGBTQ2IA+ couples, non-monogamous and polyamorous relationships, and partnerships that fall outside of traditional norms.
Rather than assuming a single model of relationship health, I work with couples to clarify their values, agreements, and limits, and to understand how culture, identity, power, and social context shape relational dynamics.
My role is not to prescribe how a relationship should look, but to support honesty, consent, and self-respect within the relationship you are actually living.
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Amanda Morrison
Licensed Psychotherapist
LMFT #78449
amandamorrisonmft@gmail.com
415-689-5792
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